Leave it to mom to prove me wrong on two things I said in my last post. It was nice to be wrong on these.
Remember I said she would probably not even realize where she was going today? Well, I waited until I saw the ambulance pull into the driveway to tell mom we were taking her to another place for more comfort. I didn't want her to have time to think about it, or object and be upset...... When I told her, she just said, "Is it the white house?" Yes, it was a big white house. Then she said, "Is it the house Don went to?" Yes, it is the house one of their best friends, Don, went to for his last days about a year ago. That was it. She knew where she was going, and had no problem with it. Once again, the peace of God was resting on her and this situation. She calmly allowed us to get her transported to an incredibly beautiful and tasteful facility to finish out her days. It is a serene and peaceful environment, a great staff that will take good care of her, and a place that is only 5 minutes from my dad's house. We couldn't have asked for more.
I also mentioned that I would probably never hear her laugh again..... wrong again.
Tonight all the brothers were in the room and the nurse came in and used the "S" word... We all pretty much scattered at that point.... (you know, the "S" word -- suppository). Craig, who decided to be the brother to spend the night with mom joked, "I guess I can let you know if it works or not...". To which I replied, "Can I leave my camera with you?"
We thought mom was in a deep sleep.... she opened her eyes, looked up and let out the first laugh I'd heard in five days! It was great..... It made me smile.... (you know, the "S" word -- smile.)
3 comments:
Hey Terry,
it's me Patty Fiorisi. I'm sorry. The first time I saw here in the hallway of Bethel,I knew exactly where you got your sense of humor from. I would chukle as I passed her everytime she visited Bethel,just trying to catch a listen as to what crack she said. Always quick. Praying for your dad epectially and you boys of course. Love you
Terry,
I am a close to friend of Meghans and she sent me the link to your blog. I just wanted to let you know I think it is a great thing that you are writing about the situation. It shows the incredible love of our Lord and how he works through each of us. Keep it up and your and your family are in my prayers.
Blessings,
Sarah
That's Peggy....good for a laugh even now. I remember many good times and lots of fun with her and your Dad and you boys. She could even laugh at herself....one of you guys had an ear infection so she could an RX for pennicilan drops. After a few days, the ear was still aching so she called the doc and found out that the drops were supposed to go in the mouth...not in the ear!!!! Even though $3.25 was a lot of money to waste for us young couples back then, she howled over it!
We are still praying for her, your Dad and the whole family during this difficult time....praying for peace and comfort.
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